The other day, I was watching one of my beloved childhood movies starring Robin Williams. He was so funny and so endearing. He was such a great actor, and he reminded me a little of my dad. Every time I watch one of Robin Williams’ movies these days, there is always a point where I cry because of our loss.
Many people are very skilled at hiding their mental illnesses. I never imagined that underneath all of that comedy was a man in so much turmoil. Sometimes we are blinded to the truth because it is hidden in plain sight. It seems that Robin Williams hid his pain behind his sense of humor; filling the world with laughter, but secretly suffering.
There are so many similar cases like this in our world. We have to keep our eyes and ears open to those we love, and those who make us laugh. We must pay attention and listen to the struggles of others, letting our own troubles take a back seat for a bit. Everyone needs someone with whom to talk.
Pay attention to the needs of others and you may give someone a little joy that they are lacking in their lives. Listen. Be aware. Sometimes the loneliest amongst us are the people trying desperately to hide their pain. I am not suggesting that you could save someone from suicide just by being a friend– and I don’t know all of the facts about Robin Williams’ death–but holding a hand can strengthen a bond and pull a person further away from the edge.
I am sad about what happened to Robin Williams, and I think that his life brought the world so much happiness. I only wish he could have directed some of that sunshine his way. I also think we can learn from him; from his life and from his death. He sets the example of giving others hope and laughter. He shows us how to identify some of the signs of a person dealing with serious issues. He will not be forgotten. He lives on, not only in his role as an actor and comedian, but as a human life led selflessly and courageously.
—SJB
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